Crumbs in My Pocket

by Mike Smith

May 2021

Sometimes when I sit down to write, inspiration strikes. The
words flow easily and all is well. More often, however, I sit
down and nothing comes to me. When this happens, I quickly
start looking for other things to do. Lately, I’ve been doing a lot
of things other than writing. Unfortunately, avoidance does not
overcome a lack of inspiration. The only real cure is discipline.
By discipline, I mean forcing one’s self to put one foot in front
of the other and to get going and keep on going. Exercising
discipline is not easy. Sometimes, though, it is the only way to
get things done.

For me, training my dog is not that different from writing.
Sometimes inspiration strikes. The training session is
productive, the interaction between me and my dog is smooth,
and the choices that I make seem effortless. But for the most
part, training my dog requires me to discipline myself. There
are usually other things that I would rather be doing. It is not
easy to set training goals or to formulate and follow appropriate
training criteria. I have a lot of reasons and a lot of excuses to
skip a training session and my dog suffers from each one.
Fortunately, I have found ways to overcome my inertia and
exercise the self discipline necessary to keep my training on
track. Classes are my biggest salvation. I may have trouble
motivating myself to go out in my own back yard to train, but I
can manage to make it to a class on time and do what my
instructor tells me to do. Training sessions with friends are also
a big help. Peer support is a wonderful thing. Even so, training
should be a daily exercise, and there are a lot of days that are not
covered by classes or peer sessions. I must admit that I miss
more training opportunities than I should, all for a lack of
discipline. But I will not give up. I will keep on trying. First
the left foot, then the right foot, and on and on. If not today,
then tomorrow.

When inspiration fails, discipline really does work. After all,
this article got written. Now excuse me while I go out into the
back yard for some training.

April 2021

“In every walk with nature, one receives far more than what he seeks.”
– John Muir

Our dog is at her best when she is outside, engaged in nature.
Being in a yard is good. Being in an open field is even better.
She is generally content to be on a leash. But her spirit soars
when she is off lead. Her idea of heaven is going for a long
walk, off leash, through the woods.

This past Winter, we lived down the road from a State Park that
happened to have a very nice, very long trail through the woods.
It was a particularly difficult Winter and we took daily refuge on
that trail. Some days would be bitterly cold. Some days would
be snowy or rainy. It didn’t matter. Another day had come
around and off we went. Our dog was free to move around at
her own pace, to linger behind to explore a scent or to run ahead
to scout the way forward. She chased squirrels and deer and
wild turkeys. Sometimes she stayed on the trail and sometimes
she veered off into the undergrowth. Every day was a fresh

For us, these walks were transcendental. The natural beauty and
peacefulness of the surroundings contributed to that feeling, but
the core reason was that we were able to observe our dog in her
purest, most primal state. She was free to be her deepest natural
self and she reveled in that ability. This came at the cost of a
few anxious moments. Seeing her disappear into the woods in
pursuit of a deer. Watching her run through the undergrowth and
jump over fallen trees. But in the course of the years, she has
earned our trust and in this place and in this time we were
incapable of denying her these freedoms, these pleasures.

The Winter is now over and we are preparing to move on. Soon
we will be gone and we will never return to those woods, to that
trail. There will be beaches to walk and there will be other
trails. Our dog will have other opportunities to live her life to
the fullest. Still, we will cherish those woods and that trail and
even that very difficult Winter. All because of our dog.


March 2021

We are now a year into the pandemic and I have been taking
inventory. The year has not been an entire loss, though it has
been pinched, closed in. I have maintained my health, but I
know those who have not. One continues to have lingering
Covid induced brain fog. Another suffers from long haul
chronic fatigue. A dear friend, much older than me in age but
much younger in spirit, succumbed to the virus in the dark
month of December. That was my most bitter blow.

My dog has been content with my constant company. Her
agility career has stalled but she doesn’t seem to mind. She just
doesn’t realize how excited she will be to get back into the
swing of things. At least that is what I would like to think.
I have been observing the behavior of people and I have been
judging. For the most part, the respect that I have for others has
been confirmed and strengthened. In a few cases it has

It has been a year of uncertainty, a year of confusion, a year of
broken routines. A year of crossing the street when others
approach. A slow motion solemn passage of time. Yet,
somehow, despite all of that, and perhaps because of it, I hold
the promise of the future more dear than ever. So be it.

February 2021

Some things that I have learned from agility:

*Routines are powerful

*Dogs are pure

*Success brings out ego. Failure brings out character.

*It feels better to pitch in than to sit on the sidelines

*Be patient and be kind

*Retreat and regroup as necessary but never give up

*Most growth occurs outside the comfort zone

*Always be true to your dog

*It takes a lot of work to make things look easy

*How a person treats their dog speaks volumes

*It’s good to be BHAD

January 2021

I don’t know how this ever happened, but I woke up one day and
realized that my dog has taken control of my social life. All of
my friends have dogs or are in between dogs. Most of my social
activities involve dogs in some way or another. My exercise
revolves around my dog. I read about dogs. I write about dogs.
Hell, the timing of most of my daily routines takes my dog into

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not complaining. I’m very happy with
the friends that I have and it is no coincidence that they all have
dogs. I enjoy my social activities (most of them, anyway) and I
am quite content with my daily routines. It’s just that I never
expected that I would become so . . . dog centric. When I was a
child, my family had a dog. I would pet her. I would let her lick
my face despite my mother’s admonitions. Sometimes I would
play with her in the back yard. I loved her, but most of the time
I went my way and she went hers. I grew up and left my
childhood dog behind. While I was busy pursuing a career, my
wife and I had several dogs. My wife handled the training,
caring and feeding. I took them for walks most evenings when I
came home from work. They were definitely an important part
of the household but not the center of my attention. Then I
retired, we adopted a puppy and stumbled into the world of
agility. My relationship with dogs began to change. It grew and
it deepened and it will never be as it once was. At this stage in
my life, I simply cannot imagine being without my dog, front
and center, in my life. I really can’t explain how this has come
about. Is it because of the particular dog that I am currently
privileged to have in my life? Is it because of some specific
need contained within me? I do not know and I actually do not
care. I know what I feel and the thing about it is that there is no
need to explain this feeling to my friends. They already

December 2020

My sister has dementia. As we move into this dark Winter, my
wife and I are helping care for her. There is a certain way to
interact with my sister that both minimizes her agitation and
confusion and reduces our frustration. Establish and maintain a
connection. Communicate clearly in a happy and positive
manner. Be creative. Be flexible. Don’t force things. Wait for
the tantrums to pass. Provide abundant praise. Above all, be
understanding and be patient. Day after day after day.

Oddly enough, there is a certain beauty in all of this. There is
also a bitter irony that leaves a cold metallic taste in my mouth.

The beauty is that these skills, this methodology that we apply to
caring for my sister, are the same skills that we use when we are
training our dog. They do not come easily but through the years
our dog has, in her own way, taught us how effective they can
be. We had no way of knowing that by training our dog, we
were preparing ourselves for the situation that we now find
ourselves in. Sometimes things come together quite
unexpectedly. In this I find beauty.

The irony is that while these skills have opened opportunities
and horizons for our dog, they only serve to navigate a one-way
dead end for my sister.

At the end of particularly difficult sessions with my sister, I need
to get away to the bedroom to find some solitude, some peace
and some recovery. Usually my dog is with me. I take comfort
in her presence, comfort in the bond that we have perfected. I
continually marvel at how deeply my dog has influenced and
bettered my life.

November 2020

I still remember the day that I first went to an agility trial. I sat
there watching while dog after dog whizzed around the ring,
racing over the impossibly high and impressively long dog walk,
snaking through weave poles, hurtling through tunnels and
striding over jump after jump. Sometimes the judge would hold
up five fingers. Sometimes she would hold up ten. Was she
awarding points? Was she imposing a time penalty? I wasn’t
sure but it didn’t really matter. I was spellbound. Dogs could
jump through tires. Dogs could conquer teeters. Off leash. And
all the while, the dogs and their handlers seemed to be somehow
connected through motions that ranged from the smooth to the
chaotic. I had never before seen anything like it.

While I sat there, a simple thought formed in my mind. Wouldn’t it be something, wouldn’t it be really, really
something, if my dog and I could do that. At the time, my dog
was an unruly pup who bolted at any opportunity and there was
no hope that she would ever be able to do such things, but still,
wouldn’t it be something else. That day ended but the simple
thought stayed with me. Wouldn’t it be something if my dog
and I could do that.

Almost a decade has gone by since that day. My dog and I have
somehow managed to stumble through the necessary foundation
work, the classes and the backyard training sessions, the run
throughs and the trials. We have met with triumph and with
defeat. We have gone on new adventures and have made
wonderful new friends. We have had joyous occasions and have
suffered injuries and disappointments. There have been
achievements and there have been frustrations. Along the way, I
have learned a lot about agility and a lot about myself. Along
the way, my dog has become the absolute best version of herself.
She can race over impossibly high and impressively long dog
walks. She can snake through weave poles and hurtle through
tunnels, stride over jumps, jump through tires and conquer
teeters. Sometimes the judge holds up five fingers, sometimes
she holds up ten. It doesn’t really matter. I am spellbound. We
can do that.

October 2020

Many years ago, a well-known local doctor would take his
Cocker Spaniel, Charlie, for daily walks around Rehoboth
Beach. The streets are laid out in a grid, so the good doctor and
his dog would regularly come up to intersections. Their routine
was the same at each corner. They would stop. Charlie would
point his nose slightly up, then slowly move his head one way
and the other. After assessment, Charlie would decide which
way to go next, and the doctor would follow along. Thus, the
two would meander around town until they made their way back
home. The locals thought that the doctor was eccentric. As for
Charlie, well, the most charitable way to put it is that he had a
rather prickly personality. His groomers and vets certainly

We make all of the big decisions for our dogs. Where they live.
Who they live with. What they eat. We pretty much determine
what they will be doing on any given day. And there is no doubt
that our dogs depend on us for direction. But they are also
autonomous individuals, with their own thoughts and
preferences. So where do we draw the line between controlling
our dogs and letting them make their own choices? This is not a
trivial question. Giving a dog too much choice risks creating
behavioral problems. Giving a dog too little choice risks
breaking their spirit.

I suspect that, like many things, there is no one good answer to
what choices we should give our dogs. It probably depends on
the dog. It may well depend on the person and how they interact
with their dog. What I do know is that, whether we realize it or
not, it is a question that we face almost every time we engage
with our dog. It is the kind of decision that we instinctually
internalize, perhaps without giving it much, if any, thought. It is
the kind of decision that is worthy of reflection from time to

As to Charlie and the good doctor, there is no telling for sure
whether Charlie’s personality had anything to do with the
choices the doctor gave him along the way. One can only

September 2020

There is something very basic, very primal, about motion.
When we move, we are immersed in the force of life.
Movement generates energy. Movement envelops freedom.
Movement embodies beauty. Perhaps this is why agility is so
compelling. Agility is all about motion.

When we walk a course, we are engaged in a mindful, creative
process. We are choreographing a dance between ourselves and
our dog. Some of the dance steps, the movements necessary for
our dog to complete the obstacles, have been rehearsed during
training. The remainder of the dance, the movements that will
guide our dog through the proper obstacle sequence, is ours to

When we run a course, our instincts take over as our motion
kicks in. We become one with the child rolling down a grassy
hill on a crisp, sunny Fall afternoon. Sometimes the child rolls
smoothly and evenly and proceeds directly downhill. Sometimes
the child goes off course and begins to move sideways. It doesn’t really 
matter. If we carry through, all the way down the hill, all the way through 
the course, regardless of whether or not we had a smooth roll or a 
a clean run, that feeling of movement is simply exhilarating.

August 2020

Agility poses a unique set of questions. Running contact or two
on, two off? Take a lead out or do a running start? Front cross
or rear? Perhaps the most vexing question, the one that comes
up over and over, is was it me or my dog. We may not ask the
question out loud, but we are almost certainly thinking about it.
My dog knocks a bar. Was it me or my dog? My dog takes the
wrong end of a tunnel. Was it me or my dog?

There is a natural progression to this question. When we first
start out in agility, the answer is obvious. It was my dog. My
dog is a beginner. My dog needs more training. My dog needs
more experience. As we progress, as our dog gets better, as we
perhaps become more humble, the answer becomes a bit more
difficult. Maybe, just maybe, it was me this time. Then at some
point we have an epiphany. It wasn’t my dog at all. It was . . .
me! In point of fact, the common rule of thumb is that handler
error is a factor around 90% of the time. For many of us, it just
takes a while to come to that realization. Once we do, we are
ready to begin to master the art of agility handling.

At that point, there is one more step to take with this question,
was it me or my dog. Find a way for the answer to be simply
“Yes”. Yes to the notion that agility is a team sport, a collective
effort between handler and dog. Yes to the fact that the actions
of the dog and the handler are bound together. Yes to the idea
that the progress of one team member enables the progress of
the other. Yes to the aspiration that as team members we will do
our best to cover for each other. Once the answer is always
“Yes”, the question has then served its purpose. Was it me or
my dog? Yes, it most certainly was.

July 2020

I am fascinated by dogs’ noses. In fact, I admire them. There is
no more perfect way to cap the end of the snout. The transition
from fur to nose is flawless, almost spiritual. Looking at a dog’s
nose, I am absorbed by its color and texture. I stare at its slits
and bumps and crevasses as if seeing answers to life’s essential

While I could dwell on physical appearance, it is the capabilities
of a dog’s nose that really draws me in. Estimates vary, but the
prevailing estimate is that a dog’s ability to smell is between
10,000 and 100,000 times greater than that of a human. Never
mind 100,000 times greater, I cannot get past the concept of
10,000 times greater. Ten thousand times greater! I can no
more comprehend the scale of this difference than I can
comprehend the scale of the Milky Way galaxy. What I can
understand is that for a dog, the complexity and subtlety, the
richness and range, the whole experience of scent, exists in a
dimension that is beyond my perception. I have read that dogs
can smell emotions and health, that they can use scent to detect
the passage of time, that their noses can even detect phenomena
that has no scent. Where humans might discern a scent, dogs
can detect a whole story. Truly a dog’s nose is one of the
wonders of the world.

Then there are the biological marvels. The way a fold of tissue
inside the nose splits the airflow into a stream dedicated to
breathing and a stream dedicated to smelling. The way the
nose’s side slits allow the dog to breathe in and out at the same
time. The labyrinth of thin turbinate bones that contain up to
300 million olfactory receptors. The way dogs can smell
separately with each nostril to form a three dimensional picture
that enables them to identify the exact location of a scent. The
way the philtrum carries moisture from the mouth to the
rhinarium. The independent vomeronasal organ. The ability to
differentiate up to 100,000 different smells. OMG!

Despite all of this complexity, a dog’s nose is fearless. It calmly
assesses scents that would cause me to cower. It always leads
the way, parting the air like the bow of a ship cutting through
water. It is always working, taking things in, perceiving the
world. And when a dog, any dog, of its own volition, touches
me with its nose, with its magnificent organ of a nose, I feel as
though I have received a benediction from on high. The colder,
the wetter, the better.